Violating Boundaries Assert Yourself And Take Charge
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Violating Boundaries: How to Assert Yourself and Take Charge
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"They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety." ?" Benjamin Franklin
Do you feel like people are treating you like a doormat? If so, it might be time to assert yourself and protect your personal and professional boundaries. After all, if you don't stand up for yourself, who will?
We’ve all experienced times when someone?"be it a friend, family member, or coworker?"crosses a boundary. These situations can be uncomfortable, especially with those we are close to. So, how do you stop this cycle and take control of your life?
Know Yourself
The journey begins with self-awareness and respect. Understand your strengths and weaknesses, and be clear about your boundaries. As the Greeks wisely said, "Know thyself."
Be mindful of your physical, emotional, and social limits. Clearly communicate with those who overstep, letting them know how you wish to be treated. Different situations may require different responses, depending on your work environment, personality, and circumstances.
Set Clear Boundaries
Consider Rebecca Rosenblat, a Toronto-based sex therapist known as Dr. Date. She constantly deals with boundary violations due to her profession. Many people mistakenly believe they can make inappropriate comments or advances. Rebecca handles verbal abuse with wit and physical boundary violations decisively, making it clear that such behavior won’t be tolerated.
For instance, when someone physically touched her inappropriately, she responded firmly. Her actions convey a clear message: boundary violations have consequences.
Address Your Friends
We all have friends who love giving advice but rarely apply it to themselves. Sometimes, they overstep by telling you how to live your life. If you’re dealing with such a friend, have an open conversation about how you feel. You might say, "I appreciate your concern, but sometimes I just need a listening ear, not advice."
If the behavior continues, it may be time to reconsider the friendship out of respect for yourself.
What About Work?
You might wonder how to handle a boundary-crossing boss. Won’t speaking up jeopardize your job? My advice: stand up for yourself, regardless of who it is. You deserve to be treated with respect. Confronting the issue might even earn you newfound respect.
Consider Janick Leonard, who once worked at a restaurant where the owner frequently mistreated staff. Choosing to leave was a pivotal decision in her life. She later confronted the owner with a letter that led to positive change in how staff were treated.
The Power of Self-Respect
Years later, Janick reconciled with her former boss and even worked for him again in a respectful environment. Her story emphasizes how standing up for yourself can lead to transformation and lasting respect.
Remember, respecting yourself and others will lead to a more fulfilling life. From today, commit to asserting yourself and protecting your boundaries. Never let anyone overstep them again.
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