Who Wants to Live in a Time Bomb
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Who Wants to Live in a Time Bomb?
Why Living with Friends Can Be a Recipe for Disaster
Moving in with a close friend might seem like a great idea, but in reality, it often leads to strained relationships. Here's why sharing a living space with friends can turn problematic, based on my experiences living with two of my best friends.
Lack of Personal Space and Quiet Time
When you live with friends, your privacy and quiet time can disappear. While you might enjoy hanging out, you also need time to relax alone. If you don't live together, you can politely decline plans when you need a break. However, with a friend as a roommate, they might constantly interrupt your downtime. Friends might also feel more entitled to borrow your things without asking, unlike a stranger who would respect closed doors and personal boundaries.
I once had a roommate who consistently entered my room to borrow items, ignoring my requests for privacy. She assumed that our friendship made it acceptable.
Financial Strains
Financial responsibility is critical when sharing expenses, and strangers often prove more reliable than friends. A friend might expect you to cover for them when they're short on cash, potentially leading to tensions.
For instance, one of my friends frequently gambled away his rent money online. While I enjoy online poker, I always ensure my bills are paid first. Gambling with essential funds was not an option for me.
Cleaning Shared Spaces
Roommates found through ads tend to be more diligent about keeping communal areas like the kitchen and living room tidy. In contrast, friends might take advantage, expecting leniency.
One of my friends disliked seeing dishes in the sink but left her own unwashed for days. When questioned, she claimed her dishes didn’t bother her, creating a double standard.
Managing Power Consumption
To save on expenses, it’s essential to agree on limits for electricity usage. Strangers are usually more likely to respect these agreements than friends, who may disregard them.
My friends frequently left their air conditioning on all day, whether they were home or not, often brushing off concerns with excuses like "oops, I forgot."
Conclusion
These issues highlight why living with friends can jeopardize friendships. While it’s fine to offer temporary accommodation to a friend, allowing them to move in permanently can lead to complications. If you value your friendship, consider keeping your living arrangements separate.
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