Tips On How To Cope When A Relationship Ends
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Tips for Coping When a Relationship Ends
Summary
Breaking up with a partner can be a challenging ordeal, often coming as a shock when least expected. Here, I offer some advice on how to cope during such times.
Article
We've all experienced the pain of a breakup. Sometimes we see it coming, but often it's unexpected, adding to the difficulty. Here's some advice to help you navigate through this tough period.
During my dating life, most of my relationships ended with them calling it quits. As a teenager, it was more a hit to my pride than anything truly painful, as I had yet to meet someone who truly captivated me. Previous partners often had habits I found frustrating, such as:
- They were too clingy, needing constant attention and calls, and upset if I spent time with friends.
- They were overly emotional, crying over trivial matters.
- They were jealous, often accusing me of being interested in others despite my loyalty.
- They were untrustworthy, more interested in playing the field than in a genuine relationship.
At 21, I finally met someone who seemed perfect. She was none of the above and we got along exceptionally well.
I always dreamed of living by the sea, away from the hustle and bustle of city life. After two years together, my girlfriend and I decided to relocate to Devon's southwest coast, embracing my dream. Although I loved our new home, she soon became homesick, missing her friends and family.
Spending so much time together started to strain our relationship. She wanted to move back, but I hoped she'd eventually love Devon and make new friends. It seemed like things would settle with time.
One day, I returned home to find many of our belongings gone and realized she had left. Surprisingly, I didn't care about the missing items. What hurt was the realization that she had ended our relationship. I felt devastated and couldn’t stop crying.
Initially, I wanted to call her but reconsidered, reflecting on what might have gone wrong. I hadn't been unfaithful or abusive; the main issue was my refusal to move back to the city. However, I decided not to call her. Instead, I focused on her flaws, such as her mood swings.
Determined to move forward, I celebrated my newfound freedom with a few beers and a pizza?"simple pleasures she disapproved of. I chose to focus on positive thoughts about the future in Devon, believing I would meet someone new.
It wasn't easy, as I missed her after such a long relationship. Her complete silence reinforced my determination, making me realize I deserved someone who valued me more.
As luck would have it, I met my current fiancée the very next day. We now have a child together, and I couldn't be happier.
Conclusion
Stay positive. If you've done nothing wrong in a relationship, don't dwell on the breakup. The right person will stand by you through thick and thin. If someone leaves at the first sign of trouble, they might not be who you thought they were. Embrace the opportunity to find someone who truly appreciates you.
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