The Powerful Secret to A Loving Relationship
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The Powerful Secret to a Loving Relationship
Summary
Building a loving relationship involves many factors. Shared interests and values, such as those related to religion, politics, and personal growth, can help. It's also beneficial when both partners share lifestyle habits, whether it's their approach to food, punctuality, or neatness. Physical attraction and common values about money can also play important roles. However, one crucial element can make or break the relationship regardless of these factors.
The Essential Ingredient: Intention
At any moment, we are driven by one of two intentions: to control or to learn. When we aim to control, we're trying to gain love, avoid pain, or ensure safety. In contrast, a learning intention focuses on understanding how to be loving to ourselves and others.
The motivation to obtain love instead of giving it can lead to conflict within a relationship.
A Common Relationship Scenario
Consider Jason and Samantha, who feel emotionally distant and haven't been intimate in a month. Their issues began when Samantha wanted an expensive vacation, and Jason disagreed. Samantha got angry, Jason conceded, and the distance between them grew.
Samantha wanted to control the situation to feel special. She equated the vacation with proof of Jason's love and used anger to manipulate the outcome. Jason, aiming to avoid conflict, gave in to avoid Samantha's anger, hoping she'd see him as a good husband.
However, both tried to control each other rather than being loving, resulting in emotional distance.
The Shift to Learning
With a learning intention, the scenario would change dramatically. Samantha wouldn't react with anger but would instead seek to understand Jason's concerns. Jason wouldn't simply give in; he'd explore why the vacation mattered so much to Samantha. By prioritizing mutual understanding, they would find a win-win resolution.
Through discovering Jason's financial worries and Samantha's vacation desires, they could reach a compromise?"perhaps choosing a more affordable trip that satisfies both. This process nurtures love rather than diminishing it.
Conclusion
No matter how much Jason and Samantha share or how attracted they are to each other, their love will dwindle if their approach is to control. Love fades when control dominates, yet it flourishes when both partners focus on learning. Embracing this shift in intention can reignite love swiftly and profoundly.
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