The Egoistic Friend
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The Egoistic Friend
Summary
Friendship often involves altruism and sacrifice for another's interests. But how do we truly define and test a friendship?
The Nature of Friendship
Friendship is frequently seen as the opposite of egoism, implying selflessness both psychologically and ethically. While we often describe dogs as "man's best friend" due to their unconditional love and sacrifice, this relationship can still be rooted in self-interest. Dogs rely on their owners for security and sustenance, demonstrating that their attachment is not entirely unselfish. True friendship requires a degree of selflessness that goes beyond mere survival instincts.
Defining True Friendship
For friendship to genuinely exist, it needs to meet specific criteria:
1. Conscious and Intelligent Entities: At least one participant must be a conscious, intelligent being, whether individual or collective.
2. Shared Mental States: There must be a minimal level of shared understanding and communication.
3. Non-Deterministic Behavior: Friendship involves conscious choices, not just automatic responses. Predictability without thought diminishes the value of the relationship.
Friendships are often tested not by the friends themselves but by external circumstances, such as financial hardships. True friendships endure these challenges, proving their resilience and depth.
Egoism vs. Altruism
Confusion often arises between self-interest and self-welfare. Self-interest may fulfill immediate desires but can be detrimental to long-term welfare. Therefore, egoism should be seen as the pursuit of self-welfare, balancing present and future needs.
Joseph Butler highlighted that primary desires drive self-interest, such as hunger leading to eating. However, disinterested actions, like contributing to humanitarian causes, can also reflect a deeper psychological process.
Often, people engage in altruistic acts to avoid cognitive dissonance and anxiety, driven by social conditioning. This altruism, resulting from societal expectations and upbringing, serves broader social interests by promoting welfare and reducing societal pressures.
Balancing Interests
Society benefits when altruism enhances overall welfare by redistributing resources, addressing market failures, and reducing social pressures. There are different perspectives on balancing individual and societal interests:
1. Some believe satisfying individual self-interests harms society.
2. Others argue that maximizing individual satisfaction inadvertently benefits society, aligning with theories like Adam Smith’s "invisible hand."
3. A balance between personal and public interests allows both society and individuals to flourish without fully compromising their satisfaction.
As the saying goes, "Good bookkeeping makes for a good friendship." Aligning self-interest, altruism, and societal well-being need not be at odds.
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