Pass It On - The Three Golden Gates
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Pass It On: The Three Golden Gates
Summary
Great words never die; they transcend time, passed down through generations as wisdom and legacy. The words of influential figures like Abraham Lincoln and George Washington continue to inspire. Here, I share some of the most profound advice I've encountered on this journey through life.
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I first learned about the concept of the "three golden gates" from one of my early mentors, Richard Land. Although these words did not originate with him, I’m grateful he shared them. Richard's wisdom is now broadcast across the nation on family life radio stations.
Before speaking, it's wise to let your words pass through these three golden gates. If they can’t clear all three, it might be best to remain silent.
The First Gate: Is It True?
For many, this is the sole gate for filtering words. We've all heard someone justify hurtful remarks with, "Well, it's true, isn't it?" Such an approach lacks diplomacy and often masks malicious intent. Truth alone doesn’t justify spreading harmful words. It’s well-known that truth without love can be cruel, just as love without truth can be mere sentimentality. Truth is the first hurdle, but not the only one, so let’s proceed.
The Second Gate: Is It Needful?
Even if what you’re about to say is true, is it necessary? Many hurtful comments would not sting if they were to pass through this gate. People who possess a second golden gate demonstrate care for others, understanding the power of words and striving for kindness. The essence of this gate comes from the golden rule: if we disregard others' peace and dignity, who will protect our own?
The Third Gate: Is It Kind?
This gate prompts us to examine the true motive behind our words. Even true statements can wound. Careless and indifferent words scatter daily, causing lasting damage. Such words are mankind’s great enemy, often leading to further hatred and conflict. Most words that pass the first two gates falter here.
These gates are invaluable tools for every relationship?"be it marriage, family, or everyday interactions. While using them demands conscious effort, with practice you'll become more adept, thereby improving both your communication and your character.
Incorporate these gates into your life to foster better connections and personal growth.
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