Marital Communication Influencing and Persuading Your Spouse
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Marital Communication: Effective Ways to Influence and Persuade Your Spouse
Summary
Experts say that communication is key to a successful marriage. But what do you do when your spouse adopts a dismissive or overly confident attitude? By rephrasing your thoughts to pass the "Macho Test," you might find your partner more open to a free exchange of ideas.
Understanding the "Macho Attitude"
Have you ever wondered why your spouse seems to disagree with you or dismiss your ideas? One of the most challenging aspects of marriage can be trying to convince your partner when they exhibit a "Macho" attitude. Many wives feel their suggestions are met with denial, while husbands often find their ideas rejected without consideration. Both partners might resent feeling like they’re walking on eggshells to avoid conflict.
Some people naturally adopt a skeptical or dismissive stance. It's frustrating to feel that your own life partner questions your credibility or dismisses your ideas. Instead of giving up, consider a new approach.
Recognizing the "Macho Pattern"
A person displaying the Macho Pattern tends to believe:
- They already know everything.
- They have no problems, and everything in their life is perfect.
- Any issues are someone else’s fault.
- They are superior in knowledge and importance.
This attitude can make it difficult for their partner to communicate effectively. We've all been in situations where we cater to someone's ego or try to prevent them from losing face.
I once sold a sales training program with optional coaching. No one opted for coaching because it meant admitting they needed help. Now, the coaching is integrated into the program. Everyone can fall into a Macho mindset at times?"consider your reaction when a parent tells you what to do.
Using the Macho Test for Better Communication
To ensure your spouse considers your ideas, apply the Macho Test as an editing tool. Ask yourself:
1. Is there anything suggesting they don’t know something?
2. Am I telling them what to do?
3. Am I implying they have a problem that I can solve?
4. Am I suggesting they are imperfect?
5. Am I insinuating I am superior?
If any of these are implied, it fails the Macho Test. Consider these rephrasing strategies:
1. Knowledge Acknowledgment: "As you probably know..." followed by what they might not be aware of.
2. Suggestions Over Directives: "You might consider..."
3. Problem Solving Together: "I’ve heard other couples face this issue and they often... How have you dealt with it?"
4. Highlighting Expertise: "With your experience in this area..."
5. Equal Roles: Clearly define roles: "Your role is... My role is..."
Conclusion
Next time you introduce a "new" idea, frame it as something they might have already pondered. Recognizing who exhibits the Macho tendency can guide you in rephrasing your thoughts to pass the Macho Test, encouraging a more open exchange of ideas with your spouse.
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