Discerning The Loving Heart
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Discerning the Loving Heart
Introduction
Have you ever connected with a friend or potential partner, only to later realize they were uncaring? Initially, they seem kind, but over time, their self-centered, narcissistic, and angry traits surface. You wonder how you misjudged them and what you can do differently in the future.
Understanding Compassion
After 35 years in counseling, I've found that people decide early in life whether they want to care about others' feelings. Some deeply feel others' joys and pains, while others focus mainly on their own emotions.
People with deep compassion often become caretakers, taking responsibility for others' emotions. On the other hand, those less compassionate often expect others to care for their feelings and blame them when they don’t.
The Role of Compassionate Hearts
If you're naturally compassionate, you might be drawn to people in pain. Your urge to help stems from genuine concern and the discomfort their pain causes you. However, these individuals might not reciprocate your level of care.
Developing Discernment
To identify someone with a loving, caring heart, start by nurturing self-compassion. Often, caring people prioritize others over themselves, leaving them vulnerable to becoming caretakers for those who only take. By valuing your own feelings, you'll quickly sense when someone doesn’t genuinely care about you.
Understanding Control and Responsibility
Realize that, regardless of how caring you are, you can't control how others treat you. The more you care for someone else's feelings while neglecting your own, the less they will care for you in return. People often mirror the lack of self-care they see in you.
As you take full responsibility for your feelings, you'll find it intolerable to be around those who don’t care. Trust your perceptions and quickly discern when someone lacks genuine concern. Let go of those who seek caring without giving it in return.
Recognizing Genuine Love
Discerning a loving heart becomes easy when you practice self-compassion, trust your perceptions, and accept that you can’t control others. People's intentions?"whether to give love or to receive it selfishly?"are revealed through their actions. With experience, you'll recognize a loving heart early in a relationship. If you want to break the cycle of unfulfilling relationships, cultivate your power of discernment.
By focusing on self-compassion and awareness, you can develop a keen ability to identify genuine care in others. Embrace self-responsibility, and you will attract and maintain healthier, more fulfilling connections.
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