Can This Relationship Be Helped
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Can This Relationship Be Saved?
Exploring the Possibilities of Relationship Improvement
Summary
With 35 years of experience in counseling couples, I often encounter individuals questioning the potential for saving or enhancing their relationship, especially when a partner seems disinterested or struggles with addiction. What does it take to improve these relationships?
Understanding the Dynamics
In every relationship, both partners contribute to the issues. It's easy to point out a partner’s faults, but recognizing your own role is crucial. Leaving a relationship without addressing your own patterns of behavior means you’ll carry these issues into future relationships. Exit only when you've learned to be self-sufficient in your happiness, regardless of your partner’s actions. Take full responsibility for your feelings and needs, and if your partner’s behavior remains unacceptable, then it may be time to move on. Respond to them in ways that honor your well-being and joy.
The Impact of Personal Growth
When the partner willing to undergo counseling works on self-improvement, the relationship may either thrive or deteriorate. It's a 50-50 chance. Embrace the process of self-care and release attachment to the outcome.
Case Studies
Craig and Gloria:
Craig is unhappy due to Gloria’s anger and judgment. He sees himself as a victim, but he’s also part of the problem by trying to manipulate Gloria through compliance. Real progress comes when Craig starts speaking his truth without blame. By taking responsibility for his well-being and being willing to risk losing Gloria rather than himself, the relationship might improve, or it might reach a breaking point. Either way, Craig’s honesty is the key.
Marilyn and Martin:
Marilyn feels lonely due to Martin’s alcohol use. Her past attempts to connect have failed, leading to feelings of isolation. To change the situation, Marilyn must focus on her happiness by engaging in activities that fulfill her. If things don’t improve after six months to a year, she may choose to leave, or simply continue nurturing her own joy. Her newfound independence might even encourage Martin to confront his issues.
Conclusion
Can these relationships be improved? Maybe. The key is doing your own inner work and seeing where it leads.
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