All About Love
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All About Love: Understanding the Journey
How Do You Know You're in Love?
Love is a complex and often elusive feeling, yet those who have experienced it claim there's no mistaking its presence. If you find yourself questioning whether you're in love, the likelihood is that you are not quite there yet.
The Search for Love
Many believe falling in love involves finding someone who matches our unique preferences. I call this the "Terminator Glasses" phase. It’s where we subconsciously scan potential partners and assess how well they fit our ideals.
Spotting 'The One'
Take, for example, a recent New Year's Eve. As I walked into a bar, I saw him?"the perfect match. My internal checklist activated:
- Height: Around 6 feet. MATCH.
- Build: Balanced. MATCH.
- Hair: Short, dark brown. MATCH.
- Complexion: Dark olive. MATCH.
- Lips & Smile: Plump and captivating. MATCH.
- Eyes: Big, brown, expressive. MATCH.
- Stance: Confident but gentle. MATCH.
- Nationality: Likely Brazilian. MATCH.
With these matches, he moved to phase one’s next step: interaction. This crucial stage puts every word and gesture under scrutiny. It's a delicate dance, where mismatches can end things swiftly. But when both partners play the same game, it’s exciting?"almost like a mutual unspoken agreement.
Rose-Colored Glasses Phase
The next stage is the "Rose-Colored Glasses" phase, filled with excitement and optimism, yet often entered without caution. Here, imperfections are unnoticed, and everything seems possible. The risk is high?"an early "I love you" can make or break the journey.
The Real Challenge
Stage three is where reality sets in. Relationships face the test of time, revealing each other's true selves. Here, I often waver, recognizing imperfections I previously ignored. Attempts to change the other person usually backfire, transforming love into dependence and possibly resentment.
People often say they've "fallen out of love." However, I believe they were never truly in love. As a favorite film, Moulin Rouge, suggests, "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return." Yet, this implies conditions?"whereas true love should be unconditional, embracing someone as they are.
True Love
True love transcends romantic ideals. It requires 100% acceptance, without trying to change the other person. Real love is about giving wholeheartedly, expecting nothing in return.
In the end, love, real love, is simply about loving.
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