Forgive For Less Marital Anger
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Forgive to Reduce Marital Anger
Summary
After 12 years together, Stacy's partner didn't come home one evening, and she suspected he was with a former lover. Though he pleaded for another chance, Stacy's pride and anger held her back from forgiving him. Despite still loving him and not ending the relationship, she reminded him daily of his betrayal.
Should Stacy Forgive?
Only Stacy can decide if she should forgive her husband. While many marriages struggle to survive an affair, some do and can even become stronger.
Stacy and others in similar situations may benefit from debunking common misconceptions about forgiveness:
Misconception #1: Forgiving Means Forgetting
Forgiveness doesn't require forgetting an offense. While the memory might linger, true forgiveness occurs when you can recall the event without the accompanying emotional pain.
Misconception #2: Forgiving Implies Accepting the Behavior
Forgiveness doesn't mean condoning the behavior. You can forgive while still recognizing the injustice or unacceptability of the act. It involves understanding the offender might have been flawed or misguided.
Misconception #3: You Need to Verbalize Forgiveness
Telling someone "I forgive you" can backfire, especially if they view themselves as the victim. Forgiveness is an internal process. However, sharing your forgiveness can be beneficial if it doesn’t cause further harm.
Misconception #4: Forgiveness Equals Immediate Trust
Forgiveness and rebuilding trust are distinct. Trust must be re-earned through actions rather than words. Immediate trust after a violation may suggest poor boundaries.
Misconception #5: Forgiveness Brings Positive Feelings
Forgiving doesn’t necessarily restore love or positive feelings. The absence of anger might lead to neutrality rather than affection. Some never rekindle love, even after letting go of anger.
Misconception #6: Forgiveness Happens All at Once
Forgiveness can be gradual. Start by forgiving a little, then observe your partner’s behavior. Over time, you may release more anger and reach full forgiveness.
Ultimately, forgiveness is a personal journey, and each individual must find their own path through it.
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