The Three Forms of Closure
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The Three Forms of Closure
Summary:
To heal from traumatic experiences, victims of abuse may seek closure?"a final encounter where the abuser acknowledges their wrongdoing and apologizes. Unfortunately, this is rare. Abusers, especially narcissistic ones, are unlikely to offer these gestures, often leaving victims in a state of misery and self-doubt. Depending on the specifics of the abuse, three types of closure can be effective.
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1. Conceptual Closure
This involves openly analyzing the abusive relationship. Both parties may discuss what went wrong, identify blame, learn lessons, and part ways cleansed. Ideally, a compassionate offender?"even though it’s a paradox?"would help the victim shed any misplaced guilt or feelings of responsibility for the abuse. This process allows the victim to move forward and seek happiness and healthy relationships.
2. Retributive Closure
When the abuse is severe and prolonged, conceptual closure might not suffice. In such cases, retributive closure entails a sense of justice and balance through punishment of the abuser. Legal intervention can often be therapeutic. However, the victim's emotions may lead to illegal actions, such as stalking or retaliation, reflecting the cyclical nature of abuse.
3. Dissociative Closure
When other forms of closure are absent, victims may repress painful memories and dissociate from them. This can lead to Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), where experiences are compartmentalized and attributed to "another personality." Sometimes, victims internalize their abuser's traits as a defense mechanism, creating a False Self to shield the True Self from further harm. This repression, while protective, may lead to various mental health issues due to unresolved trauma.
In summary, while closure is essential for healing, its forms depend on the nature of the abuse. Each path has its challenges and potential consequences, but understanding these options can aid victims in their journey toward recovery.
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