How To Play The SMS Dating Game
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How to Play the SMS Dating Game
Introduction
In the age of texting, dating has taken a new twist, making it easier for some to play the field. This guide explores how women can navigate the SMS dating game and turn the tables on those who might otherwise keep them at arm's length.
The Texting Phenomenon
During a relaxed Saturday barbecue, a common dating dilemma sparked a lively discussion. One woman asked why a guy would promise to call after a great first date but instead only send flirtatious texts for weeks. As a single man, I observed the nervous reactions from other guys, recognizing the familiar scenario.
The Male Perspective
Safely back in my own space, I can offer insights into how men think (or sometimes don’t) regarding phone communication. Often, experts say men avoid phone calls because they are less mature or seeking comfort. In reality, many just aren’t comfortable with prolonged phone conversations.
Men can often appear more confident in person, using body language or humor to connect. On the phone, however, they may feel exposed, fearing that their words are being closely analyzed.
Enter: SMS
Texting offers a lifeline by allowing men to communicate without the pressure of real-time conversation. It helps them craft the perfect response and maintain a connection without committing to a call. But why rely solely on text messages?
The Fridge Analogy
Imagine a guy's mind as a refrigerator: if he texts you constantly, he keeps you at the forefront, like a favorite snack. If he’s not as interested, you're more like a dish he saves for later.
Turning the Tables
Here’s how to shift the SMS power dynamic in your favor:
Step 1: Practice Resistance
Ignore those late-night messages. He’s likely reaching out for attention. Let him wait.
Step 2: Set the Bait
Respond with a brief message saying you've been busy but hope to catch up soon.
Step 3: Be Patient
When he replies, delay your response while showing subtle interest. Suggest he calls, but mention you're busy with socializing. This keeps him guessing.
Step 4: Seal the Deal
If he calls and proposes a quick meet-up, gauge your interest. If he suggests a week later, consider moving on.
Conclusion
Why reveal these insights? Perhaps it's time men are honest about their intentions. Understanding the SMS dating game can help women make more informed decisions. Now, with this knowledge, you have the tools to take control and have fun in the dating world.
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