Makinging Resolutions Stick
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How to Make Your Resolutions Stick
Every January, the gym is packed, but by March, it’s back to its usual crowd. Why can’t we make our resolutions last? Here are some insights.
Understand Why You Do What You Do
We naturally gravitate towards rewarding behaviors and avoid those that aren’t. When trying to change, consider why you engage in certain behaviors. Ask yourself, what benefit does this behavior bring? Why am I not doing something else instead?
Replace, Don’t Just Remove
It’s common to focus on removing bad habits but forget to replace them with positive ones. For instance, quitting smoking might lead to weight gain if you replace cigarettes with candy. Smoking often provides relaxation, so find another way to relax. If nicotine cravings are an issue, consult a physician for support. Address the physical aspects first, then tackle stress relief and habit change.
Set Realistic Goals
Immediate gratification is tempting. Many products promise quick results, but most people lose motivation with long-term goals. Instead of saying, "I want to lower my cholesterol by 30 points," opt for, "I’ll do one thing each day to reduce my cholesterol." At the start, set goals that offer daily or weekly rewards. For example, reward yourself after an hour at the gym. Focus on burning calories daily instead of slow-progress goals like weight loss.
Keep Goals Achievable
Don’t expect to transform from a couch potato to an athlete overnight. Start with small, achievable goals. Once you’re consistent, raise the bar. For example, start with "I’ll walk for 45 minutes, three times a week," and later increase the pace.
Limit Your Focus
Avoid spreading yourself too thin. Focus on changing one or two small things at a time. Cut down on cigarettes and start a simple exercise routine.
Reward Yourself Properly
Feeling better might not be enough motivation. Choose rewards that match the effort you put in. If you’re competitive, work with a friend and track your goals. Sharing your goals publicly can add accountability and provide encouragement. If you prefer privacy, treat yourself to something special as a reward.
Be Specific
Vague goals like "I’ll exercise more" or "I’ll eat better" are ineffective. Clearly define your goals. Ask yourself, how will I know if I’ve succeeded? Your goals should include frequency, intensity, and duration. For example, "I’ll eat one fruit each day" or "I’ll avoid more than one cup of caffeine daily." Set specific limits on how much fat you consume and plan exercise durations clearly.
Choose the Right Goals
To feel better, address the root causes, whether they’re sleep deprivation or lack of exercise. Don’t assume that getting fit will solve unrelated problems. If your relationship needs work, improve communication with your partner. Remember, you can only change yourself, not others.
In Summary:
- Start small with goals you can achieve.
- Replace bad habits with healthy alternatives.
- Ensure your resolutions offer similar benefits.
- Clarify what you wish to achieve and whether your resolution targets it.
- Identify barriers and address them first.
- Consider if you’re truly willing to change or just prefer staying the same.
- Ensure rewards are frequent and meaningful.
- If needed, consult a behavior modification specialist?"often, a few sessions can make a big difference.
Following these strategies can help make your resolutions more than just fleeting wishes.
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