Loving Those Who Are Behave Egotistically Or Are Cold And Unfeeling
Below is a MRR and PLR article in category Self Improvement -> subcategory Time Management.
Embracing Those Who Act Egotistically or Seem Unfeeling
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Summary:
Why do we withdraw our love when others act in self-centered or cold ways? What risks do we perceive? Often, it's seen as natural to distance ourselves from egotistical individuals. But what's truly at stake? Could it be our self-worth, security, freedom, control, or pleasure? Perhaps their behavior mirrors our own egotism.If a five-year-old displayed egotistical behavior, would we react with anger and offense? Likely not. Instead, we'd continue to love them, gently explaining that such actions aren't pleasant and asking them to behave differently. Would we feel threatened by a child? Why, then, do we feel threatened by an adult with similar behavior?
The truth is, an egotistical adult poses no real danger. Our love diminishes because we perceive them as "bad" or because they remind us of our own flaws.
Understanding and Compassion:
We can choose to love those who act egotistically or coldly once we realize their behavior stems from fear, pain, and inner emptiness. They act this way because they are unhappy, lonely, and disconnected from those around them.These individuals need our understanding and compassion, not rejection. We should view them as children needing love and support. We attract from others what we perceive in them.
In such situations, we're called to connect with the divine consciousness behind their troubled minds and love them despite their behavior. This means rising above our own egos to connect with our soul's nature and recognize theirs.
This doesn’t mean we can't encourage them to be more caring and responsive to others. We can approach them with empathy, aiming to help them feel better rather than rejecting them.
Loving Those Who Don't Meet Our Needs:
Why should others be responsible for meeting our needs? Is this necessary for us to love them or feel loved by them? We aren't always capable of fulfilling others' needs?"does that mean we don't love them? Or are we sometimes hindered by our own fears and desires?We might consider relinquishing the need for others to fulfill our desires as a prerequisite for love. Loving without expectation of needs being met is a higher form of love?"love for love's sake.
Loving someone who doesn't meet our needs is an opportunity to cultivate selfless love. This is our challenge.
Often, we assume others don't love us when they don’t meet our needs. However, they may genuinely care but are unable to meet our needs due to differing values, perceptions, or personal obstacles. If we reflect honestly, we’ll find we too have unmet needs from those we love, despite our love for them.
While it's important to communicate our needs and negotiate with others, we should avoid using love as leverage. People are more likely to respond positively when they feel our love is unconditional.
Conclusion:
By choosing to embrace those who behave egotistically or seem unfeeling, we learn to love beyond conditions and strengthen our capacity for unconditional love.From "Love is The Choice" by Robert Elias Najemy
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