Discover What You Really Want - Ask This Question
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Discover What You Really Want by Asking This Simple Question
Kids Understand What They Want
As a child, the world seemed so simple. I'd sit with a cup of hot cocoa, some cookies, and a sheet of paper to write my letter to Santa. I effortlessly asked for what I wished for Christmas without worrying about feasibility, cost, or others’ opinions. I knew exactly what I wanted and wasn't afraid to ask for it.
But somewhere between childhood and adulthood, that clarity faded. My desires became tangled in "shoulds," obligations, and the opinions of others, leaving me uncertain.
This experience is common. Many of us lose touch with our true desires. It’s challenging to create a fulfilling life when we're unclear about our wants. Clarity is crucial if you're seeking more pleasure, passion, and purpose in your work and life.
But what if you’re feeling stuck or confused about what you truly want?
Embrace the Santa Claus Question
One powerful way to uncover your desires is through the "Santa Claus Question":
"If I were Santa Claus and could bring you anything you wanted, what would that be?"
This simple question helps me and my clients connect with our deepest desires.
Consider Janet (a pseudonym for privacy), who wanted to create a new information product. She had ideas but none that excited her. I encouraged her to set aside her existing thoughts and immerse herself in possibility.
I asked, “If I were Santa, what product would you love to offer?” Instantly, Janet was energized with a perfect idea that was nearly complete, making it easy to create.
The shift was remarkable. By pausing and opening up to new possibilities, Janet found clarity and motivation, quickly bringing her idea to life.
Discover Your Desires
Here’s how you can use the Santa Claus question to find your own desires:
1. Identify an Area of Uncertainty:
Choose a part of your life where you're unclear or stuck, like a work project, career path, home renovation, or a personal celebration.
2. Set Aside Limitations:
Agree to temporarily ignore what you believe is or isn't possible. Focus solely on what you truly want, not the logistics of achieving it.
3. Ask the Magical Question:
If Santa doesn't resonate with you, try “If I could wave a magic wand,” or “If I were a genie offering unlimited wishes.”
Examples:
- What would I ask Santa for regarding this project?
- What would I wish for in my work life?
- What would my dream bedroom look like with a magic wand?
- How would I ideally celebrate my birthday?
Be bold and creative with your answers. My clients often have fun making their Santa Claus lists, exploring possibilities without inhibition.
Write down every detail that comes to mind. Revisit the list to refine and explore ideas worth pursuing.
Moving Forward
What happens next varies:
- You might gain immediate clarity and bring your desires to life quickly, like Janet.
- Or, something unexpected may align with your newfound clarity, such as unexpected support or resources appearing in your life.
- The journey might be longer, requiring sustained effort, but knowing your destination is a significant first step.
Regularly ask yourself the "Santa Claus question" to cultivate clarity, energy, and opportunities in your life.
Enjoy the adventure!
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