Alcohol Kills A Person s Necessary Growing Pains
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Alcohol and Growing Pains: A Reflection
Summary
Growing up in the early 70s, when the legal drinking age was 18, alcohol was a staple in teenage social life. Witnessing friends consume copious amounts of alcohol, our interactions were defined by our drinking habits. It wasn't until later in life that I recognized the impact of alcohol on emotional development and social interactions.Article Body
In the early 70s, high school life was steeped in alcohol, with the legal drinking age set at 18. Many of my friends, even those who drank at my father's bar where I worked, indulged heavily. The ability to drink large quantities of alcohol was almost a badge of honor, attracting admiration from peers, especially the opposite sex. However, this culture took a darker turn with frequent alcohol-related car accidents, prompting societal and legal changes.This era saw the birth of organizations like Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) and Students Against Drunk Driving (SADD), as stricter laws and designated driver campaigns emerged. It gradually became less fashionable to be intoxicated at gatherings, and heavy drinking began to carry a stigma.
Personally, my own phase of heavy drinking spanned from age 25 to 35, ending with the birth of my daughter, Sarah. Quitting alcohol was one of the best decisions for both my health and my family. Oddly, I found a sense of pride when Sarah expressed relief that I didn't drink, having seen the less appealing side of intoxication from her friends' parents. However, my discovery of discarded beer cans from a recent party revealed her own struggles with alcohol.
When confronted, Sarah admitted that alcohol helped her overcome shyness and socialize more easily. This echoed my past reasoning and heightened my concern. Relying on alcohol to navigate social situations inhibits emotional growth, delaying the development of essential interpersonal skills. Drinking as a coping mechanism for social anxiety prevents young people from experiencing and overcoming necessary growing pains.
Alcohol can render young individuals one-dimensional, with limited interests and interactions. They often remain trapped in the mindset of when they first began drinking. This reminds me of Robert Bly's book "The Sibling Society," which depicts a society lacking in ambition and depth, where people see only those immediately around them.
As we witness yet another generation grappling with alcohol abuse, it's crucial to understand its true impact on emotional maturity. The media often glamorizes the ease of recovery of public figures from addiction, overshadowing the real consequences of drinking.
Reflecting on my past, I often questioned why I drank so heavily. Social settings made me uncomfortable, and alcohol was a crutch that seemingly improved my social skills. Now, at 53, I face these growing pains alongside my daughter. I hope to navigate this journey together, wondering who will mature first. Only time will tell.
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