After Dinner Speaking Hero Or Coward
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After Dinner Speaking: Hero or Coward?
During my tenure as Chairman of Forum, the Public Speaking Group of the Australian Institute of Management, I've often faced questions about after-dinner speaking. Before diving into this topic, let's reflect on your experiences at a dinner event when a speaker took the stage.
How did you and your party respond? Did you give the speaker a chance, listening attentively? Or did you quickly lose interest and turn back to your own conversations, perhaps even shouting comments?
Consider how such reactions might have felt for the speaker. As a novice, giving a presentation after dinner can be intimidating and may damage your self-esteem. Generally, audiences at these events, especially after a few drinks, are more interested in entertainment. They want to laugh, making this setting particularly challenging.
To become an entertaining speaker in such an environment requires significant skill and confidence. When inhibitions drop, audience members might shout remarks that can distract you. Novices often get drawn into these interactions, losing control of the situation. Some attendees may attempt to be humorous at your expense, testing your composure and potentially leading to feelings of inadequacy.
These emotions are legitimate. Your speaking skills may need work, but this doesn’t define you as inadequate. However, such moments can leave lasting impressions. I've seen confident speakers develop a fear of public speaking after a bad experience.
To avoid this, learn and practice the basics of public speaking in a supportive environment before attempting after-dinner engagements. If you're the guest speaker, avoid drinking before your speech, and preferably, don’t eat either, as an ill-timed burp can undermine your confidence.
Enjoy being a guest at these events until you've built the skills and confidence you need. Here's to your growing success in public speaking.
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