To Ask Or Not To Ask - That Is The Success Question
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To Ask or Not to Ask: The Key to Success
Summary:
Many dreamers fail to achieve their goals because they second-guess themselves, asking questions like, "Is this worth it?" or "Why are results so poor?" This leads to half-hearted efforts and unfinished plans. This article explores whether questioning is helpful or harmful to achieving success.
Keywords:
success, procrastination, questioning, cost-benefit analysis, planning, achieving, dreams, goals, focus, results
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Dreamers often stumble because they constantly second-guess their actions. Questions like "Is this a waste of time?" or "Why aren't the results better?" can lead to indecision and half-hearted efforts. This hesitation often results in unfinished plans, leaving dreamers unsure if their strategies could have succeeded.
We sometimes overthink and hesitate to act. Consider Tarzan: he spoke little but was always ready for action, whether facing a crocodile or the king of the jungle. His example underscores the importance of acting decisively rather than over-questioning.
In sports, teams often question referees when they're losing, wasting energy complaining instead of focusing on the game. This lack of focus almost always ensures defeat.
Similarly, after a prominent jogging advocate passed away young, many questioned the value of jogging. Others might think, “Why bother living healthily if one might die young anyway?” However, giving up a healthy lifestyle out of fear of unpredictability is not the answer.
In martial arts, questioning techniques didn’t sit well with instructors. I learned this when my curiosity about certain moves was met with painful demonstrations rather than answers. Over time, I realized such questions could be excuses to avoid the hard work of training. Often, answers come through practice, not questioning.
Taking massive action with effort, while saving questions for later, can lead to personal growth and self-discovery. By following advice from coaches and mentors without skepticism, you'll see results.
However, some questions can lead to significant breakthroughs. In martial arts, doubts about traditional techniques in real-world scenarios led to the development of practical self-defense systems that prioritize effectiveness over tradition. These new systems cater to those who can’t invest years in traditional training, offering practical, life-saving skills faster.
Thus, questions do hold value. The real question is: when should we question our actions? The answer lies in finding a balance.
Questions are valuable at the start of a project, after its completion, or if things go drastically wrong. However, avoid questioning actions mid-process unless absolutely necessary. Save doubts like "Is this necessary?" until after completing tasks, and you'll be better positioned to assess their value.
Recently, a student of mine was excited about a job offer in the Royal Navy, clearing mines. While I admired his enthusiasm, I felt obligated to remind him of the job’s dangers. Serious questioning, like potential risks, should occur before making commitments, not in the midst of action.
Effective questioning at the right time can be incredibly beneficial. But once you begin a task, focus on your goals and let questions wait unless there's a significant setback. Fatigue and discouragement are poor reasons to start doubting.
If you feel compelled to question early on, at least persist with your original plan until you find answers.
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