Look Up - The Power Of Expectations
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Look Up! The Power of Expectations
Introduction
"We will always tend to fulfill our own expectation of ourselves." ?" Brian Tracy
Looking "UP" signifies more than just a direction?"it's the path we desire to tread. To ascend, we must set our sights beyond our current circumstances. UP is a journey that never ends, urging us to reach for that next rung on the ladder, fight another battle, help another person, or draw a new analogy. Wherever we stand today, there is always room to grow.
The Barrier of Low Expectations
What's holding us back? Often, it's our own low expectations. When we set expectations, our powerful and complex minds align our actions to meet them. Robert K. Merton referred to this phenomenon as a "self-fulfilling prophecy," where a prediction causes itself to become true.
Lessons from Literature: My Fair Lady
In George Bernard Shaw's play Pygmalion, Eliza Doolittle transforms from a Cockney flower girl into a lady. The change stemmed from how others perceived and treated her. Colonel Pickering's respectful treatment taught her self-respect, illustrating how people's expectations can shape our self-image.
Everyday Examples
We've all seen this in action. A colleague mentions they might be getting sick, despite our reassurances. The next day, they call in sick, exactly as they expected. This illustrates how deeply expectations can influence outcomes.
"You have to expect things of yourself before you can do them." ?" Michael Jordan
"Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact." ?" William James
The Influence of Others
Who influences our expectations? Friends and family often do, usually with good intentions. For example, a spouse may expect you home for dinner, creating a positive norm. However, well-meaning loved ones may also plant seeds of doubt, swaying us from pursuing our true passions.
Imagine believing you have a talent for writing, but friends and family subtly suggest otherwise. They might think they're being protective, yet often, their doubts lead us to choose safer, less fulfilling paths.
Taking Control: The Power of Self-Expectation
You are the most important influence on your life's direction. We constantly compare ourselves to others and hear our own voice above all else. What are we telling ourselves? David's success against Goliath hinged on his self-belief and past victories.
Besides those in our close circle, others can also set expectations for us if we allow them. It's crucial to evaluate their opinions objectively, ensuring any change aligns with conscious choices rather than external influences.
Overcoming the Past and Future
The past and future can heavily influence the present. Past guilt can make us feel unworthy of success, while anxiety about the future can paralyze us. It's vital to release feelings of unworthiness and practice forgiveness, which affects us more than others. Unaddressed guilt and anxiety also pose health risks, such as heart disease and weakened immunity.
The Bible wisely advises in Philippians 4:6, "Do not be anxious about anything." Instead, present your concerns with gratitude, focusing your energy on the present.
Setting Expectations Now
The best time to set expectations is now. While learning from past experiences and aiming for future goals are important, action is only possible in the present. The good news is that by looking up from where we are, we can change our trajectory.
"We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake... by an infinite expectation of the dawn." ?" Henry David Thoreau
By embracing conscious effort, we possess the undeniable ability to elevate our lives.
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By focusing on expectations, we empower ourselves to strive for success, motivation, and fulfillment beyond our current limits.
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