Letting Go Of Perfection
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Letting Go of Perfection
Discovering the Beauty beyond Perfection
Exploration and discovery ignite a sense of wonder and possibility. From unearthing lost treasures to finding cures for diseases, the journey of discovery is filled with excitement and intrigue.
Embracing Discovery
As I prepared to present my workshop at the conference center, I noticed the room was not set up as I had requested. The space was too small, tables were present, and flipcharts were nowhere to be seen. Instead of letting frustration take over, I smiled and wrote “DISCOVERY” in bold letters on a piece of paper at the front of the room. It served as a powerful reminder of the mindset I wanted to embrace.
The Magic of Discovery
Discovery is one of my favorite concepts. It evokes images of lost treasures, uncharted islands, groundbreaking inventions, and ancient relics. It is about unveiling what was previously unknown. Explorers find new lands, scientists uncover medical breakthroughs, and philosophers seek truth. But what about discovering each other? Understanding the often-overlooked values, truths, and hopes in those around us?"our neighbors, friends, family, and colleagues?"is equally enchanting.
Thomas Crum, in "The Magic of Conflict," emphasizes Discovery as a realm that frees us from the need to fight or succeed. In Discovery, we become spontaneous, curious, and appreciative of life's diversity. Children naturally live in Discovery, and some adults, like Katharine Hepburn, retain that childlike wonder throughout their lives. Thomas Edison, too, embodied this when he said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
The Trap of Perfection
Contrasting Discovery is Perfection?"a familiar and demanding domain. Here, things must be flawless; we aim to look good, achieve high grades, and win. Failure is feared, and sometimes, in our efforts to avoid it, we harm important relationships. When attacked, we retaliate, often using behavior designed to control or diminish others.
Shifting to Discovery
According to Tom Crum, when we transition into Discovery, we perceive mistakes as outcomes and conflicts as opportunities to understand and grow. This perspective eliminates the fear of failure, transforming our world into one of wonder, spontaneity, and fun.
Asking, "What Can I Learn Here?"
Shifting into Discovery requires awareness, not judgment. Instead of asking, "How can I be right?" consider, "What can I learn here?" If self-judgment arises after missing a three-foot putt, Discovery invites you to see it as a learning opportunity.
In tough meetings, pause and ask, "What can I learn here?" Consider what’s significant for everyone involved.
At home, if your partner seems upset, resist the urge to assume fault. Instead, think, "What can I learn here?" and approach them with empathy and curiosity.
If your teenager is adopting concerning behaviors, explore her perspective before drawing conclusions.
Choosing Discovery
We’ve all had moments when a breakthrough led us to new understanding. This powerful experience is one we wish to revisit. The challenge is consciously choosing Discovery, especially in difficult situations. Katharine Hepburn once mused, “Wouldn’t it be great if people could get to live suddenly as often as they die suddenly?” Embracing Discovery over perfection is key. Try it; discover its transformative potential for yourself.
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