How Are You Inventing Your Life Today
Below is a MRR and PLR article in category Self Improvement -> subcategory Inspirational.
How Are You Inventing Your Life Today?
Walking down Lincoln Avenue in Portsmouth, I'm captivated by a picturesque day?"forsythia, tulips, daffodils, a bright sun, and a warm breeze. I enjoy the freedom and privilege of walking through a friendly neighborhood, fully appreciating my healthy body. It's easy to feel content when life is smooth, and I'm struck by how much I often take for granted.
Yesterday was a different story: cold, rainy, and windy. I woke up tired and irritable after a sleepless night. A lingering project demanded my attention despite my lack of inspiration. My body ached from an intense Aikido practice, leaving me drained. I spilled a potted plant in my office, and the last piece of my treasured toasting bread mysteriously vanished. Life, as my friend Carol puts it, can catch you off guard at any moment.
So, how do I adjust my attitude, revise my goals, and reinvent my life even on challenging days? I remind myself: "You can do this. This is the perfect opportunity to practice centering, breathing, and laughing." It's simple to stay balanced when things are going well, but the real test is managing on rough days.
To be honest, it's tough. But noticing my reactions is a step in the right direction. Friend and colleague Joy Jacobs calls this meta-communication?"the ability to step outside ourselves and acknowledge our emotions. My meta-communicator steps in and says, "Hey, Judy, you're reacting strongly. Do you really want to lash out? Probably not."
This inner voice acts as a buffer between my reactions and responses, preventing emotional spirals. Meta-communication is a key aspect of emotional intelligence, essential for self-awareness and self-control. Without it, emotions can take over, clouding our judgment. Regaining perspective usually comes after the emotional storm has passed.
Centering turns on the meta-communicator. Taking a literal and figurative breath reignites my connection to my power source, giving me the space to choose my reactions wisely.
Sometimes, pity parties can be surprisingly enjoyable. Chatting with friends?"either over the phone or in person?"while adopting exaggerated attitudes can be therapeutic. We bring our meta-communicators along, laughing at ourselves even as we vent. It's more enjoyable to complain when you're aware of it.
The Dalai Lama once said, "If you don't like what's happening in your life, change your mind." How do you feel about your life now? It might be tougher than dealing with unseasonable weather, but gently experimenting with your mindset can lead to surprising changes.
When I'm willing to change my mind, everything else follows. It starts with recognizing my reactive state:
"I'm upset. Okay?"Upset Energy. How can I channel it in a way that aligns with my values and vision?"
Taking charge before my emotions do allows me to move from a path of reaction to one of power and presence.
By placing a buffer between my reactions and responses, I reclaim my power. I reconnect with my true priorities. Why am I here? What do I want to contribute to my workplace, family, and relationships? What are my hopes for this conversation? How will I impact this meeting?
More sunny days and uplifting moments lie ahead. Regardless of external or internal weather conditions, an inner spring of insight?"a constant source of awareness and gratitude?"remains within reach, ready to guide me. I remember all that I'm grateful for, including the privilege of experiencing emotions.
How are you crafting your life today, in this very moment? Is it a struggle, or does it flow naturally? In many ways, the answer lies with you.
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