CONTROL...who exactly is being controlled
Below is a MRR and PLR article in category Self Improvement -> subcategory Happiness.
Who Is Really Being Controlled?
Summary
"Is it reasonable to control my partner's friendships just in case a sexual attraction develops?"
Keywords
Women, self-esteem, confidence, jealousy, relationships, trust, control
Article
I found myself pondering deeply about what to share with my readers tonight. Initially, I had a plan, but a comment on my self-esteem website wouldn't leave my mind. It revolved around the concept of "control" and read:
"If I can't trust my spouse to keep their promise, why am I in this relationship? I don't want to control someone else's life. I choose to believe until proven otherwise. Positive attracts positive."
This made me think: does wanting exclusivity in a relationship equate to control?
How does expecting your partner to focus solely on you become controlling? Is it controlling to worry about their interactions with others or to check their phone and computer logs? Is questioning their every move or being suspicious after a night out considered control?
If you've answered "yes" to many of these, you might wonder, who is really being controlled?
Jealousy can be incredibly destructive, trapping you in a vicious cycle. Constantly searching for proof of betrayal only gives control to your insecurities. Trust is essential and challenging, especially when doubts linger. It's risky, but love inherently involves risk. You must trust your partner while holding onto the belief that you are the special person they chose.
There will be times when your partner might interact with someone you find threatening. That's when they should understand the importance of maintaining boundaries. As a member of my website aptly put, "Attraction to others is normal; it's acting on it that counts."
The issue is, should we control our partner's friendships out of fear? Both partners must draw a line. Being human means, we make mistakes. It's about choosing control wisely?"controlling urges or momentary attractions.
The "what ifs" will always linger, but true commitment relies on trust. Isn’t it sweeter to focus on the positive "us" rather than dwell on negative thoughts? Take control of your mind, and let your love guide you toward happiness.
Physical touch, like hugs, can send messages of love and reassurance. Why not embrace this as often as possible? Simply put, it's like being allowed to enjoy your favorite meal without any consequences. Why not take advantage of this positivity?
Think about this: Do you want to be controlled by your fears, or do you want to take control of your thoughts? Ponder this, and remember to embrace positivity.
If you control your thoughts, you control your feelings. While you can't control external events, you can always manage your internal responses.
Dorothy Lafrinere
Owner/Operator
[Women’s Self-Esteem Website](http://www.womensselfesteem.com)
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Email: dorothy@womensselfesteem.com
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