The Stories We Tell Ourselves
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The Stories We Tell Ourselves
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Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach, a Hasidic master, taught that during Passover, we bring our life stories to the Seder table to liberate them. But what does this mean?Keywords:
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Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach, a revered Hasidic master, taught that on Passover night, we bring our life stories to the Seder table for liberation. But what exactly does this entail? At our core, we are storytellers, often without realizing it. We weave tales for family, friends, coworkers, and even ourselves. Whether shared over the phone, through emails, in journals, or just within our minds, these stories shape our realities. They cover everything from those we love or resent to what inspires or terrifies us.
Throughout our lives, from birth to death, we are living narratives. On Passover, however, it's the stories we tell about ourselves that require examination and liberation. These narratives hold tremendous power, either enlightening or misleading, inspiring or discouraging.
Reflect on Your Life Stories
A valuable exercise this Passover is to become more aware of the narratives we tell ourselves. What themes dominate our stories? Victory? Betrayal? Struggle? Victimization? We've all experienced pivotal events?"perhaps in childhood or more recent times of hurt. Often, we draw incorrect conclusions from these experiences, clinging to immature understandings that complicate our lives, unless something prompts us to rethink. Passover serves as that reminder.
Liberation from Our Own 'Egypts'
Passover reminds us that we don't have to remain trapped in our personal 'Egypts.' There is a Higher Power invested in our liberation. Our role is to understand, heal, and elevate the stories we cling to that no longer serve us. The Haggadah states, "In every generation, a person is obligated to see themselves as if they themselves left Egypt." What are you doing to free yourself this year?
By revising parts of our life script, we can transform our narratives. It's not about what happened, but how we interpret those events.
Suggestions for Telling Better Stories
Become a Sympathetic Narrator
When reflecting on your life story, adopt the perspective of a sympathetic narrator. In literature, this is someone who supports the protagonist. For example, when the Torah describes King David, it acknowledges his flaws but doesn't overshadow his greatness. Similarly, recognize your mistakes without obsessing over them. Consider failures as painful yet valuable learning experiences on the road to success.
Choose What to Emphasize
Every story has a slant, even in journalism. Choosing which details to highlight can shift our perspective from bitterness to closure. In your own tales of loss or pain, decide what to emphasize to foster healing.
Seek a Higher Purpose
A core spiritual principle is that our lives are intentionally designed to support our soul's evolution. As the Baal Shem Tov taught, "You are exactly where you need to be." Avoid dwelling on internal struggles over past events, which only cause more pain. According to this belief, nothing happens by accident; there are no coincidences, only synchronicity. When reframing your life story, look for the Divine patterns leading you to this moment. These connections are the magical language of the Divine. Strive to see beyond circumstances to the Divine Order of the paths chosen for you.
Focus on the Present
Work on the 20 Percent
Interestingly, the Midrash states that when Moses led the Israelites out of Egypt, only 20 percent followed him. The remaining 80 percent stayed, unable to risk leaving a familiar imprisonment. This mirrors the recovery meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous, where only 20 percent remain sober while others relapse into familiar patterns of addiction.
When aiming to rewrite your life story, remember it's not about feeling 100 percent ready. Instead, focus on whether at least 20 percent of you is strong enough to take action. Passover encourages us to find and work on that part, which might unlock the life we deserve.
By understanding and reshaping our stories, we free ourselves from limiting narratives, ready to embrace a life of growth and possibility.
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