Keeping the Dream Alive
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Keeping the Dream Alive
Keeping the Dream Alive
Introduction
Like the song famously sung by Linda Ronstadt, "a dream is a wish your heart makes." Losing a dream can feel like losing a part of yourself, shutting down that part of you that envisions exciting new possibilities.
The Power of Dreams
A friend of mine, who notices architectural details wherever she goes, always dreamed of becoming an interior designer. Unfortunately, her Italian immigrant parents discouraged her, fearing it was an insecure career choice. "I was crushed," she recalls, "and the dream just died."
Our dreams are fragile. It's essential to protect them, especially in their early stages, from those who might project their fears and doubts onto us.
The Struggle to Keep Dreams Alive
From my teenage years, I knew I wanted to write fiction. My family, considering arts unreliable, didn’t support my dream. However, I persisted, writing and selling short stories while managing a full-time job. As rejection slips piled up, maintaining my dream became increasingly challenging.
I realized I needed positivity and joined various writing groups until I found the right fit. Many goal achievement experts highlight the importance of support. "Isolation is a dream killer," states Barbara Sher, a career counselor and author of several popular books.
Valerie Young, founder of Changing Course, emphasizes that support can come from colleagues, mentors, and role models. While friends can help, it's crucial to tap into a broader network.
Steps to Nurture Your Dream
Here are steps I followed to keep my dream alive, helpful for anyone balancing work and family without established resources:
1. Get Support and Encouragement
Connect with others in your field through online groups, correspondence, or organizations. Workshops and seminars are excellent ways to network. Once connected with like-minded individuals, you begin to see yourself as one of them.
2. Find Mentors
Reach out to professionals living your dream. I contacted bestselling novelist Charlotte Vale Allen, who offered invaluable advice and encouragement.
3. Research
Read extensively about your interest and apply what you learn. I delved into books and articles on writing, from plotting to marketing, and used this knowledge in my work.
4. Incorporate Little Bits Into Your Life
Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Even small steps bring satisfaction. During a demanding period at work, I discovered tanka, a five-line lyric verse, allowing me to integrate creative writing into my tight schedule.
5. Use Visual Reminders
Create a scrapbook or place reminders of your goals where you can see them daily. I set a date to leave my job and pursue writing full-time, placing it where I couldn’t miss it.
Making Room for Your Dreams
Achieving a dream may require sacrifices, whether it's a reduced income or fewer social activities. By honoring your longings, you move closer to a fulfilling life. Pursuing dreams isn’t reserved for a select few?"give them the attention and support they need, and you might be amazed at what you achieve.
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