How to Teach Your Wife to Use Firearms
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Teaching Your Wife to Use Firearms: A Guide
Summary
This guide offers tips for teaching your spouse how to responsibly and safely use firearms. It's important to approach this with patience and understanding, avoiding any high-pressure tactics. Remember, shooting can be enjoyable for everyone, regardless of gender.Article
My Experience
When I first took my wife shooting, I didn’t exactly start off on the right foot. On our first real date, I surprised her by taking her to a gravel pit with a trunk full of guns. Having not seen me since I left for the Marines, she handled the surprise well, despite my barrage of tips and her unfamiliarity with firearms. Amazingly, we still ended up marrying.
Despite my enthusiasm, my wife wasn’t immediately comfortable with guns. It wasn’t until a concerning incident at a local store that she began seeing the potential benefits of carrying a firearm for protection. With newfound interest, she agreed to give the range another try. This time, I approached teaching from a different angle, focusing on her comfort and understanding.
Guidelines for Teaching Firearms
From my experience, here are some guidelines I developed to help anyone teach a newcomer how to shoot:
1. Avoid Pressure: It’s crucial to create a relaxed environment. High-pressure tactics are counterproductive and can turn someone away from shooting permanently.
2. Prioritize Safety: Always have eye and ear protection ready. Explain their use and cover the four basic firearm safety rules:
- Treat every gun as if it’s loaded.
- Never point the gun at anything you don’t intend to destroy.
- Keep the gun on safe until you’re ready to fire.
- Keep your finger off the trigger until you’re ready to shoot.
3. Start Simple: Begin with small-caliber firearms. For long guns, consider a .22 semi-auto like a Ruger 10/22, or a single-shot .410. For pistols, a .22 or .38 revolver works well. Keep plenty of loaded magazines ready if you’re using a magazine-fed firearm.
4. Choose Non-Threatening Targets: Avoid humanoid targets. Use biodegradable items like stale cookies for outdoor ranges or turn a target around and use a paper plate for pistols.
5. Take it Slow: Encourage questions and answer them simply. The first sessions should focus on easing fears and allowing your spouse to get comfortable with the activity.
Encouraging Enjoyment
By fostering a secure and understanding environment, you’ll likely find your partner enjoying the sport more quickly. My wife, for instance, became quite enthusiastic about shooting and even surpassed my range scores. She’s now involved in the shooting community and is working toward becoming an instructor herself.
However, there’s a humorous side to sharing a hobby. The last few guns, range bags, and ammo purchases have been hers, and I’ve struggled to finish building my AR-15 as new options for her keep popping up. But seeing her passion and skill makes it all worthwhile.
By ensuring she feels secure, allowing her to go at her own pace, and offering encouragement, your spouse can discover a new sense of enjoyment and skill in shooting.
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