Be Confident- Do Not Let Your Boss Drag You Down
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Be Confident: Don't Let Your Boss Bring You Down
Summary
Regular interactions with certain people, especially bosses, can affect your self-confidence negatively, but only if you allow it. This article explores how to navigate such situations and maintain your self-worth.
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Meeting people regularly, like bosses or even friends, can sometimes impact our self-esteem negatively. Personally, I've been affected by negative remarks from both friends and supervisors. Here's how to manage these interactions without letting them make you feel inferior.
A few years ago, I met a client named Ian who shared a similar experience. Ian was a successful director in his company but had a boss, whom we'll call John, who was overly aggressive. John, the chairman, seemed to play a power game, wanting to instill fear rather than respect.
Ian described a typical interaction: John would email him in the morning about a dip in profitability in the northwest region, requesting a meeting to discuss the issue. Ian would scramble to gather information from his team and draft a detailed report, carefully choosing words he felt comfortable saying due to his slight stutter.
Despite his speech impediment, Ian managed to present his findings fluently. However, John's response?"or lack thereof?"was disconcerting. He would simply nod silently, creating an uncomfortable pause. This silence pressured Ian into speaking more, which led to unplanned explanations and difficulties with his speech.
Watching Ian struggle was frustrating, and I realized that a strategy was needed. I suggested that Ian end his presentations with a question, like: "This is what I believe the reasons are. However, I'd value your insights as chairman." By doing this, Ian could shift the burden of conversation back to John, allowing him to wait calmly for a response.
It's crucial not to let individuals like John undermine your confidence. Stand strong and assert your value. Embrace your strengths and never let someone else's behavior make you feel less than capable.
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Remember, maintaining self-confidence in challenging professional situations is key. Stay resilient, and turn the tables by controlling the flow of communication, ensuring your voice?"and confidence?"remain intact.
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