How Great Expectations Dating Can Set You Up For Failure
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How High Expectations in Dating Can Lead to Disappointment
Have you ever only dated people you thought were perfect for you? This mindset is why many find dating daunting. By letting go of some outdated beliefs, dating can once again become enjoyable. A shift in perspective might pleasantly surprise you.
This doesn't mean you shouldn't approach dating with some expectations. Preparing for disappointment isn’t fun either. However, changing the nature of your expectations can make dating enjoyable and help you find someone special.
Firstly, if you’re dating with the sole intent of finding a spouse, it might be time to reconsider. Even if you're just seeking a steady partner, approaching dates this way can spoil the experience. Seeking a partner with marriage in mind turns dating into a stressful process rather than an enjoyable time.
Now, imagine someone asking you out with the intent of evaluating you as a potential spouse. At first, you might feel flattered, but soon you'd likely feel scrutinized and uncomfortable. Thoughts of marriage shouldn't enter early in dating. Typically, progression moves from casual dating to exclusivity and then to a committed relationship, keeping things enjoyable and protecting your heart from unnecessary heartbreak.
By not focusing on marriage or serious commitments from the start, you're free to enjoy dating for what it is. Go out with someone because you appreciate their company and find them interesting. It doesn’t need to be a serious affair.
Invite a co-worker to a movie you both want to see and aim to enjoy the moment. Have expectations for a fun time, not for popping the question! If it leads to something more, consider it a delightful bonus. With less pressure, allowing things to develop naturally becomes easier.
Finally, if you find yourself on a date with someone focused on marriage, don't be discouraged. By maintaining your relaxed approach, you might even inspire them to lighten up and enjoy the date for what it is.
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