The Downfalls Of But
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The Pitfalls of "But"
How "But" Undermines Your Message
Consider these statements:
- "I really like you, but..."
- "I agree with you, but..."
- "Your hair looks great, but..."
Do you sense that what's coming next might be less than agreeable? The small word "but" holds the power to undermine your message and weaken your persuasive abilities.
The Impact of "But" on Persuasion
Precision in language is crucial for effective persuasion, whether in print, conversations, or emails. The word "but" acts as a negator, often invalidating what precedes it.
For example, consider the familiar scenario: "You know, I really like you a lot, but..." leading to "I’d just like to be friends." The moment you hear "but," you likely anticipate a negative outcome.
Similarly, "I agree with you, but..." often translates to "I don’t really agree with you," revealing indecisiveness and weakening your argument.
Communication and Perception
When persuading, especially the affluent, avoiding indecisiveness is vital. Compare the effectiveness of phrases:
- "I agree with you, but I still think I’m right."
- "I agree with you, and here’s why I think differently."
Listen closely to how others use "but." It might feel like they're withholding information, sparking your brain’s natural ability to sense discrepancies, known as trans-derivational search (TDS). This can lead you to question their sincerity, which is the opposite of building trust.
A Real-World Example
Consider a celebrity interview where the person says, "I feel really bad about what I've done and I'm ready to face the consequences, but..." The sentence loses credibility and leaves you filling in the blanks, often with negative assumptions.
Breaking the Habit
Although "but" is a hard habit to break, replacing it with "and" can restore your persuasive power. For instance:
- Instead of "I agree with you, but I still think I’m right," use "I agree with you, and I still think I’m right."
- Replace "I really want to hire you, but we can't afford what you're asking" with "I really want to hire you, and we can't afford what you're asking."
By doing so, you convey congruence and reduce contradictions, enhancing your credibility and success in persuasion.
In summary, watch your use of "but" to ensure your messages are clear, persuasive, and consistent. This simple change can significantly improve how effectively you communicate and influence others.
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