Contrary Dealing With Polarity Responders
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Navigating Interactions with Polarity Responders
What is a Polarity Responder?
We've all encountered polarity responders?"those individuals who feel compelled to oppose any statement or situation. For instance, when you say, "It's a beautiful day," they might respond with, "It's too hot, and there's not enough shade. I'm not comfortable at all."
These responses can be frustrating, but understanding how to effectively communicate with polarity responders can turn these interactions to your advantage.
Identifying Polarity Responders
Polarity responders are easy to spot. Personally, I find engaging with them intriguing. I prepare myself by thinking, "Next time they respond, I'll be ready." By strategically engaging them, you can guide the conversation to benefit your goals.
Engaging Polarity Responders
When interacting with a polarity responder, pay attention to words indicating a focus on "difference." They typically view matters oppositely and frequently highlight contrasts. This tendency can be used to set a conversational trap, making it difficult for them to continue their usual pattern.
Effective Communication Strategy
If you have a challenging employee, teenager, or client, try this:
You: "Could you do me a favor?"
Polarity Responder (PR): "Sure. What can I do for you?"
You: "Only if you want to. No pressure at all."
PR: "No, really. What is it?"
You: "I'd appreciate it if you could let me know whenever I say something that doesn't align with your perspective."
PR: "Certainly, but everything you've said sounds great."
You: "I appreciate your support, but I'm sure you'll find something. Just let me know when you do."
By framing your request this way, the polarity responder either points out an issue, fulfilling your request, or refrains from interrupting, breaking their usual pattern.
Creating a Winning Situation
If they do point out something:
PR: "You mentioned this, and I'm curious why."
You: "That's a great observation. I'm grateful you pointed it out. I knew you would."
This response makes them hesitant to bring up trivial points again, as it acknowledges their input while subtly playing into their need to contradict.
Harnessing the Power of Patterns
Leveraging these interaction patterns is crucial for effective persuasion. Using this method can neutralize the polarity response, ensuring it doesn't become an obstacle in your communication efforts.
By mastering this approach, you not only manage challenging interactions more smoothly but also maintain control of the conversation.
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