When Your Child Turns Eighteen
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When Your Child Turns Eighteen
Helping Your Child Transition from Teenager to Young Adult
As parents, we often imagine that our child's eighteenth birthday will bring about a magical transformation. However, the reality is they wake up as the same person they were yesterday.
When my daughter left for college, I was surprised by how many students had never experienced complete freedom before. Until then, they had curfews, were reminded about homework, and faced consequences if tasks weren't completed. Their daily activities were closely monitored.
Consider what happens when a new college student experiences freedom for the first time. If they've never stayed out all night, they're likely to do so repeatedly during their first week. If they’ve never chosen to skip a day of school, they may start skipping classes.
As parents, it’s important to introduce these freedoms in a safe environment where we can offer guidance. For instance, during my daughter’s senior year of high school, I allowed her to go out on school nights without enforcing a strict curfew. She learned the consequences of her choices when she occasionally stayed out late and struggled to get up for school. She missed classes and had to catch up on double the work, quickly realizing her mistake. In college, this kind of oversight can be more serious, especially if there are quizzes, tests, or assignments involved.
Many students encounter academic probation in college, often without their parents' knowledge. The relationship is primarily between the student and the institution, meaning parents may not receive notifications, even if they’re financing their education.
Most parents desire the same outcome: independent and happy adult children. To achieve this, we must allow them to make their own choices. Reflecting on my own life, I made mistakes as both a teenager and an adult. Learning from those choices helped shape who I am today, and I continue to grow. We should aim for our children to have the same opportunity.
So, although there may be no magical change on their eighteenth birthday, as parents, we can support their journey into adulthood by fostering their independence.
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