Telling a Child They Have ASD Autistic Spectrum Disorder
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Telling a Child They Have ASD (Autistic Spectrum Disorder)
Introduction
Recently, my husband and I decided it was time to talk to our son about ASD (Autistic Spectrum Disorder). At 13, he's maturing and will soon enter high school. We felt it was crucial for him to hear it from us rather than someone else.
Our Approach
We chose a private moment for a father-son talk, away from distractions. We emphasized that he doesn’t have a disability but simply a unique way of processing information and seeing the world. Medically fit and healthy, he's never needed medication, although it was once suggested.
Celebrating Differences
We've always highlighted his intelligence and the diverse forms of genius. His exceptional cartooning skills and distinctive paintings, despite being color blind, are a testament to his talent.
His Perspective
I asked his permission to share his thoughts, and here’s what he says:
"I often feel lost, especially in math class. It frustrates me and makes me feel inadequate. I always sensed something was different about me, and my parents' confirmation was both enlightening and daunting."
He appreciates knowing but wishes the conversation had been more direct. While others sometimes doubt his condition, it brings him a sense of normalcy. However, the reality of ASD still frustrates him.
He finds solace in small habits like moving his fingers while thinking and acknowledges his need for assistance with math. Despite challenges, he aspires to become very intelligent.
Flower essences have been beneficial in calming his mind and reducing stress.
Advice for Other Parents
- Pay attention to your child, not just as parents but encourage teachers to do the same.
- Provide extra help in difficult subjects and reinforce that their thinking is merely different, not wrong.
Our Strategies
- Avoid making empty promises, as they become their reality.
- If traditional methods fail, try new approaches; yelling only exacerbates issues.
- Explain and enforce clear boundaries.
- Explore alternative therapies, many have been effective for us.
- Use techniques like brain exercises, which notably improved his learning and performance.
- Embrace new methods only when he’s receptive.
- Stay attentive to subtle changes, especially as he's quite introverted.
- Pick an age where understanding ASD is manageable without overwhelming details.
Celebrating Success
Recently, he was honored as one of the top ten Community award winners for his water-saving strategies. He met the Lord Mayor and other families at the ceremony. Additionally, he received a Young Star Award in the Community category and is in the running for the overall award to be announced soon. Our pride knows no bounds.
Conclusion
The journey has been demanding yet rewarding, requiring patience, creativity, and consistent parenting. Reflecting on our lives, I couldn’t imagine it without him. His presence has expanded my heart and enriched my life beyond imagining, for which I am profoundly grateful.
[Michaela Scherr Transformational Coach](http://www.michaelascherr.com)
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