Advocate Respectfully
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Advocate with Respect
Overview
This article is part of a series on navigating difficult conversations. Previous installments discussed creating mutual respect, understanding your conversation’s purpose, and utilizing inquiry and curiosity. This piece focuses on advocacy.
Key Concepts
- Assertiveness
- Communication skills
- Managing difficult conversations
- Building respect
- Effective advocacy
- Emotional awareness
- Aikido principles
Article
Advocacy involves sharing your perspective in a conversation, complementing the inquiry process. It’s about communicating your story while respecting the other’s viewpoint.
Understanding Advocacy
Advocacy allows you to express your side clearly without undermining the other person. For instance, if someone views you as not being a team player, you might respond:
“From what you’ve shared, I see why you might think I’m not a team player. However, I believe I am. When I raise concerns about a project, my goal is its long-term success. I don’t intend to sound critical, even if it comes across that way. Maybe we can discuss how to address these issues so my intentions are clearer.”
Tips for Effective Advocacy
1. Wait for the Right Moment: Allow your partner to fully express their thoughts before responding. Ensure they’ve finished before you share your side.
2. Stay Focused: Keep your purpose in mind to avoid getting sidetracked or reactive. Return to your core objective during challenging moments.
3. Avoid Assumptions: Clearly communicate your perspective without presuming they understand your viewpoint.
4. Educate, Don’t Preach: Resist the urge to convince. Simply state your perspective.
5. Choose Words Wisely: Avoid language that might make the other person defensive. Use terms that encourage listening.
6. Stick to Facts: Use objective observations rather than subjective interpretations. For example, “When you walked by me without speaking” describes an action, while “When you ignored me” is an interpretation.
The Importance of Respect
Maintain respect throughout the conversation. In aikido, partners bow to each other at the beginning and end of each technique. Imagine doing the same in your conversation. If you start losing your composure, recall this gesture as a reminder to respect their story while advocating for your own.
Good luck, and may your conversations be fruitful!
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